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When I was younger, I preferred books over people and quiet alone time over loud get-togethers.

I used to think it was a flaw and would push myself to be more talkative, more outgoing, more “out there”.

While over time, this was a great lesson for me and it did help me to become more outgoing, as I got older I began to embrace my own unique skillsets.

I stopped comparing myself to my more extroverted friends and I began to recognize how I had let comparison steal my joy and allow my gifts to go unrecognized.

As an introvert, you might think that your quiet and reserved nature could hold you back from being a successful coach in the business world.

However, being an introvert can actually be an advantage when it comes to coaching. Here are a few reasons why.

Firstly, introverts are great listeners. Rather than jumping in with their own opinions, introverts often take the time to listen and understand others.

As a coach, active listening is a crucial skill, as it helps you to truly understand your client’s needs and concerns.

Another strength of introverts is their empathy. Introverts often have a heightened sense of empathy, which means they’re able to understand and share the feelings of others.

This makes them better at identifying with their clients and understanding their unique perspectives. As a coach, empathy is crucial to building trust and creating a safe space for clients to open up about their challenges and goals.

Introverts also tend to be reflective thinkers. They spend more time reflecting on their thoughts and experiences, which means they’re able to help clients reflect on their own experiences.

Reflective thinking allows clients to gain insight into their own behavior and thought patterns, which can help them to make positive changes in their lives.

One-on-one interactions are another area where introverts shine. Introverts often thrive in one-on-one interactions, enjoying the focused attention and deeper connection that comes from working closely with someone.

This allows coaches to provide personalized coaching that’s tailored to the client’s unique needs and goals.

Creative problem solving is also a strength of many introverts. They’re more likely to think deeply about a problem and come up with innovative solutions.

As a coach, you can help your clients to tap into their own creative problem-solving skills, which can lead to more effective and sustainable solutions.

Finally, in general introverts tend to be authentic and genuine in their interactions with others.

As a coach, this can help you to build trust with your clients and create a safe and supportive environment for them to work through their challenges.

By being true to yourself and your values, you can model authenticity and inspire your clients to do the same.

In conclusion, being an introvert can actually make you a better coach in business.

Your active listening skills, empathy, reflective thinking, one-on-one interaction style, creative problem solving, and authenticity can all help you to connect with your clients on a deeper level and provide effective coaching that’s tailored to their unique needs and goals.

So, don’t let your introversion hold you back in the business world – embrace it and use it to your advantage!

Kelly Thompson

Kelly Thompson is a messaging and visibility coach who helps female coaches & consultants master their message, generate leads and make money by selling high value offers without being chained to social media.  She is a wife, mother of 4 and 13 year homeschool mom, author, speaker and host of the Genius In You podcast.  If you'd like to learn how to get more clients, have more impact and make more money using virtual events, sign up for the free training at aligntoattract.com